Overcoming Overwhelm: Effective Strategies to Regain Control

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Three years ago, I found myself in a whirlwind of ambition, eager to tackle everything all at once. I had a long list of goals that seemed incredibly exciting:

→ Write a book

→ Redesign my website

→ Land more clients

→ Settle into a new country

With all of this on my plate, I felt the thrill of possibility. However, by March, reality hit hard. I was absolutely exhausted, spinning my wheels yet making barely any tangible progress on anything. It was as if I were running a marathon while juggling, and I was dropping all the balls.

Looking back, it’s clear that the research backs up what I experienced: taking on too many complex goals can easily overwhelm you. I was living proof of that theory. With each day that passed, my motivation dwindled, and my to-do list seemed to grow rather than shrink.

So, what changed for me? Well, I took a step back. I decided to pause on writing the book, spend more time thoughtfully redesigning my website, and really focus on finding my footing in this new country. I shifted my mindset from “do it all” to “do one thing at a time.” It wasn’t just about progress; it was about regaining my sanity.

Within six months, the results were astonishing. I was finally getting more work and opportunities. By concentrating my efforts, I was able to turn the tide. It was a classic case of “less is more.”

Here’s what the science tells us, which I wish I’d known earlier:

Complex goals drain cognitive resources:

Your brain has a limited amount of mental energy. Diving into multiple complex tasks at once can quickly deplete that energy, leaving you feeling drained and unproductive.

Juggling multiple priorities simultaneously reduces performance:

You might think you’re being super productive by multitasking, but in reality, your attention is divided, and your performance on each task suffers.

Sequential focus beats simultaneous attempts:

By zeroing in on one goal at a time, you’ll not only finish tasks but also do them better and with greater satisfaction.

It's important to understand that this isn’t a problem with willpower—it's about how we design our work and lives.

If you feel overwhelmed, it might be time to simplify. Here’s a tip that worked wonders for me: choose your top priority and dedicate focused attention to it for the next 6-8 weeks. Just that one thing. Once you feel progress there, move on to the next item on your list.

Your brain will thank you for it, and soon enough you’ll find yourself crossing items off your list rather than just adding more. Embracing this approach has been life-changing, and I truly believe it can help anyone who feels stretched too thin.

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Research:

Locke, E. A., & Latham, G. P. (2019). The development of goal setting theory: A half century retrospective. Motivation Science, 5(2), 93-105.